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7 Events that Get Parents Involved in PTO

Looking for program and event ideas that parents and families will love to attend?  

I have seven of them right here for you that are guaranteed crowd pleasers that’ll inspire parents to get involved in your PTO!

Kindergarten playdates / playdates in the park

During the Summer, and especially in the weeks right before school starts, set up some park meet ups and specifically invite Kindergarten parents to these playdates in the park.

Make sure to hold them both during the day and in the evening, so working parents can attend.

You can promote these events not only on your group Facebook account, but also in the packets of information families are given when they register for Kindergarten and during Kindergarten Orientation sessions.

Also bring along some membership forms and information about your PTO so you can sign people up right then and there!

Back to School Picnic

Where there is food, people will congregate and make connections.  

Schedule this classic family event during the first week of school and publicize it early and often!

Consider using the blacktop portion of the school playground to set up a few tables for a potluck picnic.  

No blacktop? Use the soccer field or any other open area around your school.

Depending on your budget, the PTO can pay for pizza and paper products and ask families to bring a different item based on grade level.

For example Kindergarteners – side dish; Grade 1 – appetizer/snack; Grade 2 – dessert; Grade 3 – 20 juice boxes, etc.  

Dividing it up like this and providing a little bit of structure ensures you don’t end up with just pizza and chips!

Also consider creating areas for the different grade levels to meet up.  

Some new families won’t know anyone and will thank you for this thoughtful direction.

Finally, be sure to set up a Membership Table so interested parents can sign up and get more information about your PTO.

Dessert Socials

If at all possible, dispense with the formal meetings a few times a year and have dessert instead!  

Less business and more time for making connections is never a bad thing.

My PTA has traditionally skipped the more formal meetings in December and May.  

We’ve opted to ask people to bring a dessert to share instead and we trade stories and form connections.

It’s just as important to give parents an opportunity to bond with one another as it is to give them information.  

So don’t overlook this important addition to your calendar of events for the year!

Need help figuring out how much food to serve? Check out this guide on food for crowds.

Social hour after meetings

Another great way to get more parents involved is to head out for dessert or drinks after the monthly PTO meetings!

Make sure to directly ask each new member who comes to the meeting so they’ll know they’re invited too.

This is a great way to really get to know members and have an adult conversation without being interrupted by kids!

And especially for lower elementary schools, this gives parents something to look forward to!

School Movie Night

Movie Night is a hugely popular event, whether the movie is for families or just students, they will come!

Here’s a post with all the juicy details on How to Plan a School Movie Night.

Ice cream social

Bust out the sprinkles and families are sure to be there!

This is one event that will definitely have the kids begging their parents to attend!

It also gives the adults time to talk and get to know each other while their kids have a sweet treat.

This is a great addition to a PTO meeting night because food always seems to break down barriers.

Don’t be afraid to make some of your meetings informal.

That’s not what most parents are expecting and they’ll be pleasantly surprised!

Networking night

One of the best attended PTA meetings I’ve ever been to was one fashioned as a networking event.

Parents were encouraged to bring business cards and a big chunk of the evening was set aside for mingling.

It was great to see how many people came out for the opportunity to meet others!

I hadn’t anticipated there would be so many, and it turned out that many of them volunteered throughout the rest of the year.

So give this idea a try and look forward to an infusion of new faces!

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Resources You’ll Love

printable resources for PTO leaders

To get more than a handful of people to join your PTO, you need to do more than simply send home a flier with a sign up form and call it a day. 

You really have to SELL your PTO and tell parents why and how PTO membership and involvement benefits them and their kids. 

And this is no easy task, especially since you’re competing with so many other obligations and time commitments. Like soccer. And Scouts. And work. And. And. And. On top of having to compete for attention and limited time, you also have to figure out how to approach parents effectively to attract them to your PTA/PTO.

Enter the Parent Involvement Success Kit.

Attract, recruit, and engage families like never before with this customizable action plan and template pack. 

The tried and true engagement strategies are highly adaptable and the kit is packed with tons of forms and flyers for new family welcome packets, back to school info packets, and new member orientation.

Packed with the fabulous resources, this kit is everything you need to run an effective membership drive, put together both member and new family packets, and get organized as Membership Chair.

Over to you

Bottom line, it isn’t that hard to think of events that will be a draw for parents and potential volunteers.

Think about why you got involved in your PTO and try to replicate that feeling or experience with an event!

Christina Hidek

Author of The Principal's Parent Group Playbook: Practical PTO Partnership Strategies for a Stronger School Community. Recovering attorney turned Professional Organizer. Host of the vibrant Super Star PTO Leaders Facebook Group. PTO/PTA engagement expert and school parent group volunteer nerd with 15+ years of experience. Learn more about Christina here.
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